Wednesday, November 23, 2005

[relationship] Attributes women loath

Men who seek women's validation:
Women hate men who need their acceptance or validation. I used to be this sort of man. I used to worry about getting validation from a woman--'is she going to like the place I am taking her?' etc.
This is a huge women repeller.
Instead, women enjoy a man strong enough to get validation in other ways besides through her.

Men who have a weak sense of reality:
This is similar to men who seek validation from women. This is a man who is unsure of himself and unsure in his beliefs about the world. So if you are the sort of man who does not have a sense of what acceptable behavior from women is, or does not have his own sense of what is important to him, or does not have his own sense of what is cool and uncooI, you are in trouble.
Furthermore, if you are the sort of man who has a sense of these things but feels intimidated to assert them to women, you are in trouble.
If a man is weak and let's a woman or other people define these things for him, she will loose interest.
Put simply, women are attracted to men who can think for themselves and are assertive about what they think and like. And not being able to think for you or be assertive is a huge women repeller.

So if this is a problem for you, you need to start working on being the sort of man who has standards, has his own take on the world, knows what he likes, and has the guts to let other people know what these things are.

1 comment:

jaleen said...

what i think is, man is a man, should be able to decide when necessary.
although i'm a gal, but i like to let men decide, since i'm a kind of follower...