Tuesday, November 29, 2005

Relationship is so complicated

Relationship is so complicated
- a relation between people; (`relationship' is often used where `relation' would serve, as in `the relationship between inflation and unemployment', but the preferred usage of `relationship' is for human relations or states of relatedness); "the relationship between mothers and their children"
- a state of connectedness between people (especially an emotional connection); "he didn't want his wife to know of the relationship"
- a state involving mutual dealings between people or parties or countries
- kinship: (anthropology) relatedness or connection by blood or marriage or adoption

Ever wonder why so many people are still single in their late 30's or 40's. Is it they busy with work till no time for dating? Is it they can't find their Mr. Right or Miss right? Is it they don't trust the relationship thing?

Sometimes I also don't trust the relationship thing, because it is complicated, ever changing. Simply put dynamic and unpredictable.

Is meeting each other daily a good idea? I can't comment on it. Even I also facing problem. Most of the time, the failure of a relationship is because of communication problem. Without proper communication, most people will be single till they rest in peace. With proper communication, even a young boy can marry to a woman who is 3 times his age. (If they can play deaf to the comments from the public)

If I were asked to make a comparison between life long partner and part time partner. I would say that being temporary does release you from all the responsibilities and commitment, something that most people are scared of. You can have more choices as people come and go out of your life. This kind of explains why many people have multiple partner or changing partner so fast.

Life long means for life, unless you plan for a divorce in the middle. To achieve life long, you need commitment, responsibilities, initiative and a lot of patient. Now let's see what the reward is, you will have kids, a lot of time to relax when is old. Get to play with your grand son, sense of achievement. Now you have your own family, something that you can be proud of.

Limp Bizkit - Behind Blue Eyes

But my dreams they aren't as empty
As my conscience seems to be
I have hours, only lonely
My love is vengeance
That's never free

No one knows what its like
To feel these feelings
Like I do and I blame you!
No one bites back as hard
On their anger
None of my pain and woe
Can show through

No one knows what its like
To be mistreated, to be defeated

No one knows how to say
That they're sorry

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